May peace be upon u dear readers, :)
Today i wanna talk about chinese friends. :)
Actually, since the kindergarden untill now i was surrounded by chinese except during the primary school i was sent to typical malay school. And there was a scarce chinese student indeed.
During the kindergarden i would say i make friends with everyone and it seems to be fun. No hatred or racis towards each other. We play, run and tease each other and dance together (the things that i can reminiscence till today LOL). We even sit together to eat and most of my teacher was chinese too. All i can say was my kindergarden phase was awesome. And i dont have any problems being friends with them.
During the secondary school, i was sent by mother to the sekolah menengah sains labuan (SMSL). But then, during form 2 I decided to leave that school and i was sent to SM ST Anne Convent Labuan (SAC) one of the best girls school in labuan. :) since the school was under the church and goverment, so, most of the students were non- muslim and the numbers of chinese students and malay students were nearly the same.
In SAC, i also found that it was fun having chinese friends. I love them. We learn together, eat together, play together, we undergo PMR and SPM together and we share our stories together. We even had the same tuition place together! We were united together. And it was compulsory for them to come to my house every Hari Raya Eidulfitri. :D I love each of everyone of them. Cheah gin sin, abigail lim, lee kwang ling, danielle clare chua hui ling, shane o neil, thompson yunga, wandee, lim, madelyn ong, Tse lan, sophie foo and more!! :') i miss them. Esp my classmates 4A3 and 5A3. Do u guys know how much i miss u guys? U guys are an awsome one! Irreplaceable.
Now, in USM the environment was the same. But what i can see is that, there was more on racis things happen here. But not everyone was felt the same. Mybe they had their own reason and past experience for being like that. But, Alhmdulillah (praised belong to Allah) everything happens for a reason. At first, i dont really like my groupmate, but now i realised that, hate and love was different. It was more on love. Good always wins the heart. I can see everyone was adapting with these environment as well as my chinese friends too. We began to feel ease and love for each other. I can see that duing PBL now. I felt the competitiveness and it was the one that actually keep me moving on striving for excellence. Being better each day. The most important things was learning with chinese here can occasionally improve my english! And so far, never a friend of mine (chinese) laugh when i was speaking.
Actually, what are the purpose of me writing this kind of stuff?
Dear readers,
If u had chinese friends at school or even college, be-friend with them. We always like to judge a book by its cover (like me). But when u know the content of the book, u will fall for it. Know them and learn how most of them acquired success. Spread the love.
Wassalam,
Fina
Postgrad life
8 years ago