Peace be upon you dear readers,
This post I wrote dedicated for sisters out there,
Have you ever be in a position where you contemplating between letting go of people or to just stay?
Thinking will it be worth it to stay, to try hard or to just follow the flow without foresee what you wanted in the future?
I tell you sisters,
If you think those relationship are'nt going to be anywhere
and not seeing the clear picture what your aim for the future
it is better to leave as soon as possible before things going to be really hard
because the longer it takes for you to realise that its not gonna worth it
its gonna hurt really bad, i assured you.
You know,
women heart are as soft as cotton candy
maybe softer than that
they can be easily impressed, moved and even easily to win with good words and care
It is fitrah to need someone to be there always
but it is important to always realise that in anything you do
you should have something to achieved in a relationship that you're in now
Not just having someone to chat or talk
just to fill up your leisure time. No no
Dear sisters,
be clear what you want in life
Never ever settle for less,
be bold and never ever give up on finding someone that brave enough
to let you to be into their life,
who've never missed putting you in their future plan
and towards achieving blessed relationship, marriage.
Never ever feel that you are less than anyone else if they don't choose you
because, always believe that someone better is coming
and whatever happens, don't stop improving yourself day by day
always know that you are precious in the eye of beholder :)
Everyone will have their own happiness, keep believing and hoping and praying.
So, sisters,
be brave to ask your partner
be clear to them and always be honest
but never stop being kind to others.
because you never know what they've been through,
have patience as always remember that Allah loves the sabireen. <3 p="">Stay calm and redha.
The moment you took the decision to stop chasing for people acceptance
that is when you know that you are not dependable to other accept Allah swt.
Know your value and don't let others deceived you by their word and action.
May Allah swt makes us sisters among the blessed people and may He makes us istiqomah in this deen. amiin.
Lets always remind each other how precious we are and keep spreading positive words.
Berlapang dada lah :)
-Dr Fina-
<3 p="">-dedicated esp to myself-
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